ACCEPT CHANGE

Friday, April 28, 2006








ACCEPT CHANGE






Emotion-the word tells something related to feeling,
feeling which comes from inner voice.









First impression is the last impression.
When people think about you, they see your face, they identify you.
However, when you change yourself, they find it difficult
to accept.




So why don’t they want to accept surprises. It might be because they do not want to accept the change. Well, change is good till it doesn’t harm anyone. When somebody changes people conclude that something has happened to that person i.e. they want to find a reason as to why he /she changes himself/herself. It might be because he/she wants to be like someone. It may also because of some hidden purpose.





But according to me, who has given people the right to judge anybody? Now, did they care about that person so much before? Perhaps, the people are comfortable enough to accept or recognize the negative thing easily.





Once,I changed my appearance by coloring my hair from black to brown. People started telling me that the reason behind this change is related to my character.





After that experience, I really admit people recognize negative easily.








Now I want to ask a question to them who has given them the right to question my appearance. It’s my life, if I have changed my appearance, then why do I get unhealthy response?








This tells us that our mentality drives from our home to college from college to office and nothing more than that.





Everyone is finding it difficult to accept the change in me, all these responses which I got after such a change has suppoted me for a cause;







I am taking it as an asset in order to make people realize that if something changes, try to accept it comfortably.





Well, now I will tell you about the reason of writing this article.






My cause will be understood to the reader after reading the next paragraph.





I would like to quote an instance here.

Some people are discussing about some matter and suppose they are at different hierarchy levels.




During their discussion if a subordinate tells some idea within no time his/her idea will be rejected or will not be given the respect which he/she should get.









Why people don’t want to think differently.








If senior tells something then they will recognize even when there is nothing new in his/her idea in order get loyality.









I want to reduce the time lag of people to accept change.








I want to recognize everyone talent so that the people innovate in there respective field and think open mindedly so that we can always recognize a way or an idea from anything for growth of mankind



My aim is to change the mentality of people, I want people to accept change in least time in order to think creatively, so that each one of us can recognize and explore the God hidden inside us and utilize it effectively, so that we can give our cent in whatever we do or think.






So that the thought “Ideas are no one’s monopoly because everyone can do everything” kept its entity every moment.




















By Vishal Sinha

17 Comments:

Blogger samprita said...

hey , what u've written is quite true.. we don't have any right to judge people... we never see them as they are but as someonw we want them to be.. i think it's a human weakness. One approach to the solution is that we should not expect anything from people at all no matter how close they are to us.. then we can accept them as they are and even we can accept the change quite comfortably... We should to learn to respect other person's views even though they don't go well with our own views... in simple words tolerance is the key....

Friday, 28 April, 2006  
Blogger Vishal said...

Thanku
after reading your comment !
i got new thing tolerance i will try to work on this field now and i will try to right an article on tolerance hey really accept change i will right something which make us to increase our tolerance level! funny right i will write
Thanku for giving such hidden clue.

Saturday, 29 April, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I understand you Vishal. It is almost an universal law that no one accepts somebody else' ideas except in such cases that one has to impress his boss.

But if one begins to accept, then he is obviously different from others.
There is one point that may be made better if you feel.
"I want to reduce...
"I want people...
This always makes others feel that you need something. Everyone cares only for themselves. So it is them who have to be stressed and not I.

If we say it is not my wish but let your wish be done, then that brings Heaven to earth.
Gandhi said let Jinnah be made Prime Minister;
Let Pakistan be given the proper share of money which Nehru refused;

Let Hindus avoid violence and respect Muslim neighbours.

One will always have to suffer to hold on to truth.

Saturday, 29 April, 2006  
Blogger Vishal said...

@anoop
Thankyou for your suggestion

Tuesday, 02 May, 2006  
Blogger Aura said...

Its quite difficult to accept change.. n U r rite tht people giv us a negative feedback for d same...I wld say tht it takes time to accept d change... either ways as d other persons comment n our own reaction for d same... Its bcaz v r not ready to accept d change( d words r d reaction) by others...
Its a mental attitude for all blent in d blood...

Friday, 05 May, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey vishal... i wont write a long comment... but must say... thumbs up to u... i really feel each nd every word of u is undoubtebly true... really i appriciate the intelectual site of urs... hope to get in touch with u...
contact id... niceyez21@yahoo.com

Sunday, 04 June, 2006  
Blogger Fondly called as 'Omee' said...

thanks a lot buddy for your comment in my blog!

you are doing a great work as well man vishal!

Keep it up!

cheers

Omeee!

:)

Tuesday, 06 June, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are right. People have no right to comment about our appearance, especially if they dont know us well.But its human tendancy to interfere in other's affairs more than what's going on in their lives.but its more important that others' words dont affect us and we sould go about doing what is right. after all we are the better judges of ourselves.
The title accept change applies to all and if we inculcate it in our lives, our life will be lot better.

Friday, 09 June, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi
vishal

i must say
really !! u r doing an absolutely wonderful job

impressive work !!

i will try n incorporate dis ability of accepting change.. into my life........
dis will only benefit me n no one

thanx

Friday, 09 June, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi vishal ...
yaa .. u r doing a gr8 job man !!
but this is a social world .. u cant ignore comments frm ppl....
keep it up dear !..thats true that ppl accept or look towards negative change first but no body can help it .. its human natue u see ... but still if u do a good job (for say .. postive change ) is also recognised !! so u carry on .. as ur work (this) going up n up ... look ppl commenting for good change too
all the best ..
bhawna!!

Thursday, 22 June, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Change
People are changing each and every minute, every day, every time.
People want changes happening only according to them.
It is only the personality which matters.
If you think I change my external appearences and sayIi have changed that is only for that moment.
I can change every day wrt external appearences,
but what matters is the internal changes

the
change in our thinking
change in our ideas
change in our mentality
change in our judgement

If u come to judgement no one on the earth have a right to judge other person except ourselves
it may seem a bit harsh
but it is the truth ..

Wednesday, 28 June, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

actaully what u have written is generally truth...
but i gues the revolution start for oneself..

so will try and remember ur point

Thursday, 27 July, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

humm vishal what u asid is quite true n ya people do go on what u look like(external appearances).They tend 2 look for negative for they are no ready 2 tolerate positive change in ur personality bcoz of some complex might be or they are like that.

Monday, 31 July, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

before bein prejudiced for any1,u should first get closer 2 the person,try 2 look fwd 2 his brighter side tehn set any decision or make any assertion.

Monday, 31 July, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

very inspiring article...keep it up...

Tuesday, 15 August, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

change is good for one self, when everyone appreciates it we are glad,and when they pass commentz, why aren't we comfortable with it??
appreciation n comments are part of life,we must know to handle and manage both.... what matters the most is the individuality within one self, be happy that you are being judged:) its for your own change!!!!!
kallu

Sunday, 08 October, 2006  
Blogger Gaya3 said...

hi Vishal, after a longtime i got to read ur blog. As usual, its awesome topic, u have chosen.

The things u say through ur blogs are really those, when they are known abt fully, practiced in the right way, will surely help everyone lead a peaceful and happy life.

Accepting change, is a real and complex thing in a human life.
Its really easy to talk about it but as a normal human, when something good is happening around, we tend u accept it more easily than if anything bad happens.

It really requires a mature mind to accept the truth of change as it is. it can be made little simple, if we start believing in the truth that " The Law of Continuous Change is Always Changeless". It is gona happen, till the end.

Good Job Brother ^ _ ^

Friday, 09 November, 2007  

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